Her teachers were her nani, Beeji, and her mum. Her nani’s standard for chapatis was strict: round, small and very thin. Neetu and her sister used a bowl to cut perfect circles. “We used to cheat.”
She cooked her first meal at seven or eight, with her brother, while the adults were out: “We made our first lentils and chapati.”
Every meal came with a small bowl of fresh chutney on the side, ground on a silbitta, a grinding stone. Mango pickle was the most famous in the house, and lemon the other favourite. Everyday food had no onion or garlic.